Stop.

So, it's very easy to make your judgement, pass your comments and jump to your own conclusions about the way someone might be dealing with a situation. However, I think it's horribly unfair to do so without knowing even one percent of the situation that the other person might be going through. Their actions are influenced by so many factors- like their personality, the personalities of the people involved, and past experiences. Whether their moves are smart or not, whether what they are doing is something that you would do or not, it must be understood that they are doing what they are doing for a REASON. There's a reason why they deal with it in a certain way, and not the way that you would deal with the situation. Understand that, accept that.